Relationships and The Law of Attraction

To Buy a New Book from Amazon Click on link Below

 https://www.amazon.com/dp/0983090807?m=A1988OFKG3ITG2&ref_=v_sp_widget_detail_page

Relationships and The Law of Attraction

         Back into Balance

Relationships – we want them we need them then why are they so hard?

Why do people who seem so in love get divorced?

What happened?

                            Change?

                                                 Growth?

                    This applies to work and friends as well!

According to balance HR – A bad boss is the main reason most employees leave. I can attest that because two high paying jobs I left due to tyrannical unreasonable bosses. I even left without having another job in queue. It was just that bad.

It is said the best way to find what type of person you are dealing with is to watch how they treat a server like a waiter in a restaurant or if you work directly for them.

Perhaps when we interview with a company we should ask our prospective boss out to lunch.

If he is gruff and demanding toward the waitress, is so then guess what?

A person’s true code of honor is how they treat people who can do nothing for them.

Do you open or hold doors for people?

If someone holds a door for you do you thank them or at least acknowledge the effort?

It is bad manners not to… regardless if you are male or female.

How do you view people?

Do you think highly of those with complimentary views on religion and politics?

Do you think those who disagree with your opinions are ignorant and stupid?

If so, do you ask them to explain their reasons or do you launch your own campaign of why you are right and they are wrong?

       Where is all of this going, you may ask?

How can we have better relationships if we place so many demands on others? 

No one is going to live their lives according to your ideals.

If they do or try to eventually they will come to hate you. 

                                    Why?

Because their purpose in life was never to serve your needs.

My first marriage I tried my best to please my wife, I found out that no matter how many ways I could stand on my head, it just wasn't enough. I learned that it never would be enough. She has to find her own bliss and it isn't making me her clown.

Every relationship can be either beneficial or harmful. It is your choice.

Isn't it about time to take a relationship tune up? ......I think it is!

Do your friends know you? (really know you?)

         Could they tell you what your dreams are?

         Your fears?

         Your inner most thoughts?

Or do they always talk about themselves?

Are you always trying to change them?

Do you think you are smarter?

Do their opinions only matter when it agrees with yours?

What do you want in a friend?

Companionship?

Validation?

A teacher?

A student?

A dog to kick around when your angry?

Ask yourself this one thing. If you lost everything and needed a place to stay and money to help you out for awhile. Who would you ask?

If one of your friends asked you if they need a place to stay and money?

Would you give it to them (no strings attached) or would you loan it to them? (at the prevailing interest rates of course.)

What kind of friend are you? 

       If I asked your friends to honestly express their feelings on what kind of friend you are verses their other friends and I video taped it. Would you?Could you watch it?

Do you expect more than you give?

The Law of Attraction brings to you friends of like vibration. 

The same frequencies. However we do not hold a constant vibration and therefor our friends are varied. You do not hold a constant vibration because in all honesty you haven't been aware of its impact in your life.

No one came down to this earth to take care of you. Quit expecting them too!

Focus on being a friend you would like to have. Nothing more, nothing less.

Raise your frequency, love is the highest frequency of all.

If someone is treating you with disrespect, let them go.

You do not need their sloppy vibrations impacting you.

If someone insults you, demeans you remember it is them..... not you.

                  What causes a swamp?

A body of water that lacks constant change.

Do you have friends like that?

Don’t hang around swamp people. 

They are poison to you.

                 You came here to experience this world and have fun.

Everyone else did too, but maybe not in the same way.

Some want to experience the excitement and horrors of fighting a war.

Movies can represent a mirror of your life

Do you like Horror, Drama, Soap Operas, Violence, Happy Endings?

It is all out there for you to choose.

You don’t have to see their movies and the they don’t have to see yours.

                        Befriend yourself and follow your bliss.

Nothing more from God, the infinite intelligence whatever you call it is required.

 If you turned your radio to a new station and you hated it. Would you complain to everyone about it? Would you protest outside the station demanding change? Would you burn it down? 

Perhaps you just simply turn the radio dial to a station you do like. Let go of having to have everyone act and think like you. 

Let go of having to prove yourself in this world. You are perfect and whole just as you are.

Your job is not to change everybody else and their job is not to change you. You came down here to live your life. To enjoy your experiences no matter what others say about them. 

Remember one thing. When you die and we all have a date with the reaper, are you going to remember how you lived YOUR life on your terms or how you lived someone else's?